What Are The Benefits of Adoption?

Why Do Expecting Parents Choose Adoption?

“It can never hurt to explore your options” -Janelle, Birth Mother

Every day, countless women find themselves facing unplanned pregnancies, navigating a complex maze of emotions and difficult decisions. Among them are women who, with immense strength and clarity, choose adoption for their child. They understand that this path, while not without challenges, can lead to a future filled with love, stability, and an opportunity to provide their child with the best possible life. Because of open adoption, relationships can be ongoing between these women and their children.

Today, adoption is a widely accepted option for a woman who is experiencing an unexpected pregnancy and is considering adoption for ANY reason.

 


What Are The Benefits of Adoption for Expecting Mothers?

We understand the immense impact that an unplanned pregnancy can have on various aspects of your life. Your education, career, and personal goals may all be at stake. Additionally, the financial responsibility of caring for a child, especially if you already have one or are without a partner, can be overwhelming. If you find yourself in a situation where terminating the pregnancy is not an option, but you are not ready to raise a child, adoption can provide a viable solution.

By choosing adoption, you are making a decision that allows you to prioritize your own well-being and future while also giving your baby the opportunity for a loving and stable home. Adoption offers a range of options, allowing you to select the type of adoption that best aligns with your desires and comfort level. Whether you prefer an open adoption, where you can maintain contact with the adoptive family, or a closed adoption, where your identity remains confidential, there is a choice that suits your needs.

Remember, you are not alone in this journey. There are numerous resources and support systems available to guide you through the adoption process and ensure that you are making the best decision for yourself and your baby.

Why Is Adoption a Good Option?

Women who choose adoption:

  • Tend to have higher educational aspirations
  • Are more likely to finish school
  • Are less likely to live in poverty and receive public assistance
  • Are more likely to delay marriage and having other children
  • Are more likely to marry and less likely to divorce
  • Are more likely to be employed a year after the baby is born
  • Are less likely to face another unplanned pregnancy

One of biggest advantages of choosing adoption is the ability to still be a part of your child’s life. Many birth mothers are able to stay in contact with the adoptive family and their child through open adoption. They receive letters, emails, photos, and phone calls regarding the welfare of their child.

In some cases, there may even be able to arrange visits with the child. Birthmothers can be reassured that their child is loved and well-cared for. This also helps validate their decision to make an adoption plan was the right one.


What Are The Benefits of Being Adopted?

There are many advantages for children who are adopted. They grow up in a family that you lovingly and selflessly chose for them. Other advantages include:

  • They have committed parents and a stable home
  • They have opportunities and resources that you may not have been able to provide for them at your stage in life

Studies show that adopted children:

  • Have greater health
  • More one-on-one attention from a parent
  • Are more involved in extracurricular activities
  • Are as well-adjusted as their peers

Your child will know that you made a loving decision to choose the best life possible for them. Your child will will be grateful for your courageous decision and thankful that so many people care about him or her.

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The Benefits of Adoption for Adoptive Families

There are also advantages for adoptive families including:

  • Receiving the joy and blessing of adding a child to their family
  • Ability to fulfill dreams of raising a child
  • Provide a loving home to a child
  • Opportunity to meet and form a relationship with the birth parents

Are Adoptive Families Happy?

Short answer, yes! The strong majority of adopted children are healthy, have strong emotional well-being, and have close relationships with their non-adopted siblings. 

Do Adoptive Parents Love Their Kids Less? 

No. Adoptive parents report that loving their adopted child is the same as loving any other child, period. 

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